Sex Work Acronyms

If you are new to the sex work industry, whether as a worker or a client, you may encounter unfamiliar terms and acronyms that you don’t fully understand. This specialised language is crucial for the industry, as it enables escorts to outline their services and allows clients to express their preferences. A client’s comprehension of the services offered by escorts is essential for both parties to have a positive experience. Escorts are usually clear about their boundaries, so it is advisable to discuss any desires prior to meeting. Additionally, in certain Australian states, it is illegal for escorts to advertise their services, so keep this in mind during discussions. It’s also important to approach these interactions with respect and understanding, ensuring that all communication is transparent and consensual. Being informed about the legal landscape is just as vital, as laws can vary significantly depending on location.

For those new to the industry, there are resources available that provide guidance and advice. Online forums and communities can be valuable spaces for learning and connecting with others who have experience in the field. These platforms often offer insights into best practices, safety tips, and how to navigate the complexities of the industry.

Moreover, it’s crucial to prioritise safety and well-being. This includes taking steps to protect personal information and ensuring that all interactions are conducted in a safe environment. Trust and mutual respect are the foundations of any successful engagement, so maintaining open lines of communication is key.
Finally, remember that everyone involved in the industry deserves respect and dignity. By approaching this world with an open mind and a willingness to learn, you can foster positive and respectful interactions that benefit all parties involved.

A
Anal Play – Any kind of external attention or penetration of the anus, by use of finger, tongue, sex toy, or penis.
Anal sex – Penetrating the anus with a penis. See ‘Greek.’

B
BBBJ – Bare Back Blow Job. Preforming unprotected oral sex to a man.
BBW – Big Beautiful Woman. A woman who is voluptuous / curvy.
BDSM – Bondage Domination Sadomasochism.
BJ – Blow Job. Preforming oral sex to a man.
BLS – Ball Licking and Sucking.
B & D – Bondage & Discipline.
Bondage – A sexual act that involves tying up or restraining a sexual partner.
Brazilian – A style of hair removal that removes the hair from the front, middle and rear of a woman’s pubic area. Sometimes leaving a ‘landing strip,’ which is a small section of hair at the front. Generally the hair is entirely removed.
BS – Body Slide. The act where an escort seductively slides her naked or partially naked body over the client’s body.

C
CBT – Cock and Ball Torture – A BDSM sexual activity involving torture or pain affliction to the male genitals. See ‘BDSM.’
CBJ – Covered Blow Job. Protected oral sex provided to a man with the use of a condom.
CD – Cross Dressing. A person who derives pleasure from dressing in clothes appropriate to the opposite sex.
CIM – Cum In Mouth – Ejaculating in the mouth.
CIMWS – Cum In Mouth With Swallow. Ejaculating in the mouth and swallowing the fluid.
COB – Cum On Body. Ejaculating on a person’s body.
COF – Cum On Face. Ejaculating on a person’s face. See ‘Facial.’
Cougar – A mature woman seeking sexual relations with a younger man.
Costumes / Cosplay – Dressing in outfits and assuming the roles of characters to provide a heightened sexual experience. Examples of popular costumes are; nurse, school girl, maid, secretary and cheerleader.
Couples – Two people in a relationship who hire an escort for a ‘couples booking’. An escort that includes ‘couples’ in their services list means they see couples.

D
DATY – Dining At The Y. Performing oral sex on a woman.
DDP – Double Digit Penetration. A finger in the vagina, and another in the anus.
DFK – Deep French kissing. French kissing with more tongue than usual.
Dinner Companion – A social escort who accompanies you to dinner. They may or may not provide sexual services.
Dirty Talk – The practice of talking sexually to heighten sexual pleasure during intimacy.
DP – Double Penetration. Two men penetrate one woman with vaginal and anal sex.
DT – Deep Throat. An oral sex technique, where one takes the entire length of the penis in one’s mouth and into the throat.
Doggy Style – A sex position, where the woman is on all fours, being vaginally penetrated from behind.
Doubles – A booking with two escorts.

E
Erotic Sensual Massage – a massage that is intended to stimulate the receiver in a sexually arousing way.

F
Facial – Ejaculating on the face.
Fetish – A personal desire for a particular object, body part, or activity that one finds sexually arousing.
Filming – Filming or digitally recording a sexual act, with consent.
Fisting – Penetrating the vagina or anus with the whole hand.
FK – French Kissing. Kissing with open mouths and tongue.
FMTY – Fly Me To You. The option to fly an escort to your city for an exclusive booking.
Foot Fetish – A sexual desire wherein feet and shoes provide sexual arousal.
FS – Full Service. An escort providing a full sexual service.

G
Gagging – The sexual act of one gagging or lightly choking on a man’s erect penis.
GFE – Girlfriend Experience. An intimate service, wherein the escort behaves like a girlfriend. This may include services as sex, french kissing and mutual oral sex. The details of each escort’s girlfriend experience can vary, and confirmation about her services is recommended.
Greek – Anal Sex.
GS – Golden Shower. The act of watching an escort urinate, or one person urinating on another, in a sexually stimulating way.

H
Happy Ending – A Hand Job after a massage.
HJ – Hand Job. Stimulating the penis by hand.

I
Italian – The act of rubbing a penis between the buttocks.

L
LK – Light Kissing. Usually with a closed mouth and no tongue.

M
MILF – Stands for Mother I’d Like to Fuck. A sexually attractive female who is mature in age.
MFF – male female female. A threesome with one man and two women
MMF – male male female. A threesome with two men and one woman
Multiple positions – an escort who allows you to have sex in many different styles and positions
Masturbation – sexually arousing one’s self, usually to the point of orgasm. Can be performed by use of fingers, hands, an object, or a sex toy
Mutual masturbation – escort and client sexually arousing themselves, while they voyeuristically watch each other
MSOG – Multiple shots on goal. An escort providing MSOG service will allow a client to orgasm multiple times

N
Natural Bush – Full female pubic hair, without any hair removal.
Nuru – A technique in which one or more ‘Nuru Masseuses’ rub their body against a client’s body. Both parties are nude, and covered in an odorless and colorless massage lotion.

O
Overnight Stays / Overnight Bookings – An escort who stays with the client overnight.
OWO – Oral without the use of a condom. See BBBJ.

P
Prostate Massage – Massaging or stimulating the male prostate gland by anal penetration. Sometimes referred to as the male G-spot.
PSE – porn star experience. A sexual encounter that is very similar to what you would see in a pornographic film. Involves a wide range of sexual positions and tends to be very hardcore. The details of each escort’s porn star experience can vary, and confirmation about her services is recommended.
Punter – the client or customer of an escort

R
Rimming – Licking the anus.
Role Play – Assuming the role of a character, to heighten sexual excitement.

S
Sex Toy – An object or device that is designed to facilitate sexual pleasure. Includes instruments such as dildos, vibrators and strap ons.
Social Escort – A booking with an escort that is social, and does not have any sexual experience.
Spanking – The act of slapping the buttocks of a sexual partner.
Spit Roasting – A woman giving oral sex to a male, whilst being penetrated from behind.
Squirting – Female ejaculation.
Strap On – A dildo attached to a harness, designed to be worn to penetrate a sexual partner.
Strip Tease – An erotic dance.
SW – Sex Worker. Also known as an escort, or working lady.

T
Tantra / Tantric Sex – Tantra is a Sanskrit word meaning ‘woven together.’ Hindu and Buddhist meditation practitioners see this as a metaphor for weaving together the physical and the spiritual. The Western form of this sacred sexuality called Tantra teaches slow, non-orgasmic sexual intercourse.
Toy Show – Watching someone use sex toys, such as vibrators.
Travel Companion – An escort who accompanies you on a holiday or work trip. Usually an extended booking.

W
Water Sports – See ‘Golden Shower.’
WL – Working Lady. (Escort).
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